{"id":4946,"date":"2025-10-10T14:21:48","date_gmt":"2025-10-10T18:21:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/?p=4946"},"modified":"2025-10-10T14:24:58","modified_gmt":"2025-10-10T18:24:58","slug":"to-curse-or-not-to-curse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/2025\/10\/10\/to-curse-or-not-to-curse\/","title":{"rendered":"To Curse or Not To Curse"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Popping in for a quick thought about cursing in books.  I write romance so my thoughts will apply best to that genre.  Sometimes a flaming \"f\" word fits right in and suits the text.  Other times, even a milder word, like \"s**it\" or \"da*mn\" can jerk me out of the story.  What fits where?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are few absolutes in life or fiction.  For every rule, there is a reason to break it.  But, since a writer never wants to throw reality in a reader's face, a rule should never get broken without thought, planning, and a sound literary motive.  Given all that, my \"almost always\" rules revolve around the period of the book.  In a historical, most curses can make use of more archaic - and more poetic- curse substitues like \"arse\" for ass.  A historical polluted with profanity takes the reader out of the period and back to the present.  And that's where profanity belongs.  A contemporary romance or romantic suspense can take some tough talk.  Cops or detectives, lawyers discussing a case, an intense board meeting, a fight with a colleague - all of these may be primed with some down and gritty language.  The story might require it.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the time, instead of tossing in a four-letter word, a writer can get creative - and make the reader smile or, possibly, introduce an insult to a reader's real life.  Just think of 'duck' and 'ducking.'  Ie; \"Isn't that ducking fantastic;\"  or \"Screw me?  Duck you.\"  Instead of saying - \"You're just a genuine asshole, aren't you?\"  A character might say - \"You're a real booger-bear, aren't you?\"  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Insults don't always have to be down and dirty.  In contemporaries or historicals, getting creative may have a bigger pay-off for the story and the reader.  Four letter words are like pain pills - use only as needed.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Popping in for a quick thought about cursing in books. I write romance so my thoughts will apply best to that genre. Sometimes a flaming \"f\" word fits right in and suits the text. Other times, even a milder word, like \"s**it\" or \"da*mn\" can jerk me out of the story. What fits where? There <a href=\"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/2025\/10\/10\/to-curse-or-not-to-curse\/\" class=\"more-link\">...continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \"To Curse or Not To Curse\"<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4946"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4946"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4946\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4949,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4946\/revisions\/4949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4946"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4946"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quackingalone.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4946"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}